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I Didn't Orgasm, Please Help Me!

I didn't orgasm, please help me! 

Let's be honest, this can happen to any of us at any time. Here are three simple tips to help.

1. Awareness
2. Communication
3. Action

1. There are two types of awareness; active and passive. Passive awareness is basically pushing the matter aside or avoiding the issue. Active awareness is becoming present with the issue and moving towards action. One or both of you must become "actively" aware that someone did not orgasm.

2. Communication is key to resolution. Ask, "Did you orgasm? You were so quiet that I want to make sure." Or "I did not orgasm, can you finish me off?" Find the courage to ask. Find the courage to get beyond guilt, shame, or fear. We were not born with an innate understanding of how to have great sex. This is a learned skill. So, practice and learn.

3. Take action to finish what you were adult enough to start. Use your hands, your mouth, your tongue, your feet... whatever it takes to help your par…

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